{"id":12688,"date":"2022-04-25T12:46:15","date_gmt":"2022-04-25T09:46:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cailap.com\/?p=12688"},"modified":"2022-04-25T13:08:46","modified_gmt":"2022-04-25T10:08:46","slug":"hyvaksy-hyva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cailap.com\/fi\/blogi\/hyvaksy-hyva\/","title":{"rendered":"Hyv\u00e4ksy hyv\u00e4"},"content":{"rendered":"

Viime aikoina olemme pohtineet kehujen vastaanottamista. Miksi se on niin monelle vaikeaa? Itsekin usein sorrumme v\u00e4h\u00e4ttelem\u00e4\u00e4n ylist\u00e4vi\u00e4 sanoja (\u201cT\u00e4m\u00e4 nyt vain on t\u00e4llainen.\u201d, \u201cSe oli vain tuuria.\u201d, \u201cEi se nyt ollut mit\u00e4\u00e4n verrattuna asiaan X.\u201d jne.).<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuntuu, ett\u00e4 on helpompaa takertua kurjuuteen ja ohittaa tarjolla oleva hyv\u00e4. Monesti emme edes noteeraa asioiden my\u00f6nteisi\u00e4 puolia, kun meill\u00e4 on niin kiire alleviivata kaikkea ik\u00e4v\u00e4\u00e4. Kielteinen palaute kivettyy mieliimme, kehut valuvat unholaan saman tien ja alamme ennakoida surkeutta. Pessimisti ei pety!<\/span><\/p>\n

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Itsesuojelun nimiss\u00e4 asetumme valmiustilaan uutta pettymyst\u00e4 odotellen. Kaiken varalta. Kuin nukkuisimme toinen silm\u00e4 auki, olettaen pahinta. Tai jopa kiduttaen itse\u00e4mme jo etuk\u00e4teen jostain uumoilemastamme tulevaisuuden ep\u00e4onnesta. Kuvittelemme kai harhaisesti, ett\u00e4 surkeuteen valmistautuminen tekee siit\u00e4 v\u00e4hemm\u00e4n kivuliasta.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Todellisuudessa ennakkoankeilu on vain takuu siit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 olo on kurja kaiken aikaa ja tulee k\u00e4ytt\u00e4neeksi valtavan m\u00e4\u00e4r\u00e4n energiaa toteutumattomien asioiden murehtimiseen. Synkkien lasien takaa* olemassa olevaa hyv\u00e4\u00e4 \u2013\u00a0sit\u00e4 joka on todellista ja tarjolla t\u00e4ss\u00e4 ja nyt \u2013 harvemmin edes tunnistaa.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Mutta siin\u00e4 sit\u00e4 hyv\u00e4\u00e4 on, edess\u00e4si ja vierell\u00e4si, juuri nyt. Kauniina sanoina, hymyn\u00e4, valmiina ateriana, my\u00f6nteisen\u00e4 palautteena, p\u00f6lyt huuhtovana sateena, onnistumisena, valona pitk\u00e4n pime\u00e4n j\u00e4lkeen, versona, rahkapullana, yst\u00e4v\u00e4n n\u00e4kemisen\u00e4, min\u00e4 lie isona tai pienen\u00e4 onnen kantamoisena. Ota se vastaan ja vello siin\u00e4 edes hetki.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sill\u00e4 kamalia asioita tapahtuu v\u00e4ist\u00e4m\u00e4tt\u00e4, ja viel\u00e4 sellaisia joita et edes osannut odottaa. Sellaista on el\u00e4m\u00e4. Mutta hyv\u00e4n hyv\u00e4ksyminen on voimakasta. Se muistuttaa meit\u00e4 huomaamaan asioiden suotuisat puolet, tiedostamaan ilon aiheet ja antamaan niille tilaa. Pienin askelin se ohjaa kohti onnea. Ja silloin ne ik\u00e4v\u00e4tk\u00e4\u00e4n asiat eiv\u00e4t tunnu niin musertavilta.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Mit\u00e4 hyv\u00e4\u00e4 sin\u00e4 vaalit t\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n?<\/span><\/p>\n


\u2764 Hanna & Heidi<\/span><\/p>\n

* Kirkkaan kev\u00e4tauringon alla tummat lasit ovat kielt\u00e4m\u00e4tt\u00e4 v\u00e4lill\u00e4 kyll\u00e4 ihan paikallaan. Oletko jo tutustunut <\/span>aurinkolasiuutuuksiimme<\/span><\/a>?<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Viime aikoina olemme pohtineet kehujen vastaanottamista. Miksi se on niin monelle vaikeaa? Itsekin usein sorrumme v\u00e4h\u00e4ttelem\u00e4\u00e4n ylist\u00e4vi\u00e4 sanoja (\u201cT\u00e4m\u00e4 nyt vain on t\u00e4llainen.\u201d, \u201cSe oli vain tuuria.\u201d, \u201cEi se nyt ollut mit\u00e4\u00e4n verrattuna asiaan X.\u201d jne.). Tuntuu, ett\u00e4 on helpompaa takertua kurjuuteen ja ohittaa tarjolla oleva hyv\u00e4. Monesti emme edes noteeraa asioiden my\u00f6nteisi\u00e4 puolia, kun […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":12700,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[197],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12688","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cailap"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nHyv\u00e4ksy hyv\u00e4 - Cailap<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Viime aikoina olemme pohtineet kehujen vastaanottamista. Miksi se on niin monelle vaikeaa? 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