{"id":5653,"date":"2020-09-24T08:05:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T05:05:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cailap.com\/?p=5653"},"modified":"2020-09-25T12:34:12","modified_gmt":"2020-09-25T09:34:12","slug":"ylpeasti-omanlainen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cailap.com\/fi\/blogi\/ylpeasti-omanlainen\/","title":{"rendered":"Ylpe\u00e4sti omanlainen"},"content":{"rendered":"

Rakastamme n\u00e4hd\u00e4, ketk\u00e4 tuotteitamme k\u00e4ytt\u00e4v\u00e4t ja miten. On riemastuttavaa, miten sama asuste voi tuoda iloa niin monelle ja niin monella eri tavalla: yhden arkikorvikset ovat toisen juhla-asuste ja kumpikin n\u00e4ytt\u00e4\u00e4 upealta omana itsen\u00e4\u00e4n.<\/p>\n

Eik\u00f6 ole mielenkiintoista, miten yhden suosikki on toisen inhokki? Tai miten joku haaveilee koko el\u00e4m\u00e4ns\u00e4 asiasta, jota toinen yritt\u00e4\u00e4 kaikin keinoin v\u00e4ltell\u00e4? Geenit ja kokemukset selitt\u00e4v\u00e4t paljon, mutta vastaus ei ole tyhjent\u00e4v\u00e4 \u2013 onhan meid\u00e4n sisarustenkin v\u00e4lill\u00e4 suuria eroja.<\/p>\n

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Jokin meist\u00e4 tekee juuri niin ainutlaatuisia yksil\u00f6it\u00e4 kuin olemme. Ja se jokin tuolla syv\u00e4ll\u00e4 sis\u00e4ll\u00e4mme liikahtaa, kun tuntuu erityisen hyv\u00e4lt\u00e4 tai pahalta. Joskus se n\u00e4ytt\u00e4ytyy \u00e4\u00e4nen\u00e4, joskus tunteena. Mutta sit\u00e4 pit\u00e4\u00e4 sek\u00e4 osata ett\u00e4 uskaltaa kuunnella.<\/p>\n

Siksi aika ajoin on hyv\u00e4 hiljenty\u00e4 itsemme \u00e4\u00e4relle. Kuljemme p\u00e4iv\u00e4st\u00e4 toiseen vastaanottaen vaikutteita vanhemmilta, opettajilta, kavereilta, sisaruksilta, luokkatovereilta, idoleilta, politikoilta, guruilta ja vaikka kenelt\u00e4. Kun kaikki ovat asioista mielt\u00e4 ja jokaisella on v\u00e4lineet julistaa n\u00e4kemyst\u00e4\u00e4n, voi mekkalassa olla vaikea kyet\u00e4 tai haluta kuulla itse\u00e4\u00e4n.<\/p>\n

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Mutta kuunnella t\u00e4ytyy, sill\u00e4 kaikkein t\u00e4rkein ihmissuhde on se, joka meill\u00e4 on itsemme kanssa. Se kest\u00e4\u00e4 l\u00e4pi el\u00e4m\u00e4mme eik\u00e4 onnellinen yhteiselo onnistu ilman autenttisuutta. Feikkaamalla tekee vain itsens\u00e4 onnettomaksi, sen olemme oppineet jo kauan sitten.<\/p>\n

Luota siis itseesi ja siihen sis\u00e4iseen \u00e4\u00e4neen, joka vet\u00e4\u00e4 sinua kohti tai ty\u00f6nt\u00e4\u00e4 sinua pois. Seuraa asioita, jotka innostuttavat ja v\u00e4lt\u00e4 asioita, jotka tuntuvat supistavan koko olemustasi (paitsi veroilmoitusta \u2013 se on vain pakko hoitaa). Ja jos<\/del> kun alat j\u00e4nnitt\u00e4\u00e4, mit\u00e4 muut oikein ovat valinnoistasi mielt\u00e4, muista t\u00e4m\u00e4: muiden mielipiteet sinusta eiv\u00e4t kuulu sinulle. Ne ovat heid\u00e4n asiansa. Sit\u00e4 paitsi meill\u00e4 jokaisella on niin paljon omia asioita mietitt\u00e4v\u00e4n\u00e4, ett\u00e4 harva edes ehtii olla muiden asioista moksis.<\/p>\n

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Jos Prinssi Harry ja Meghan voivat erota hovista, voit sin\u00e4kin luottaa sisimp\u00e4\u00e4si. Sill\u00e4 jopa t\u00e4rke\u00e4mp\u00e4\u00e4 kuin se, ettei tuota kuningattarelle pettymyst\u00e4, on se, ettei pet\u00e4 itse\u00e4\u00e4n.<\/p>\n

Kuuntele ja uskalla. Hyvin se menee.<\/p>\n

\u2764 Hanna & Heidi<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Rakastamme n\u00e4hd\u00e4, ketk\u00e4 tuotteitamme k\u00e4ytt\u00e4v\u00e4t ja miten. On riemastuttavaa, miten sama asuste voi tuoda iloa niin monelle ja niin monella eri tavalla: yhden arkikorvikset ovat toisen juhla-asuste ja kumpikin n\u00e4ytt\u00e4\u00e4 upealta omana itsen\u00e4\u00e4n. Eik\u00f6 ole mielenkiintoista, miten yhden suosikki on toisen inhokki? Tai miten joku haaveilee koko el\u00e4m\u00e4ns\u00e4 asiasta, jota toinen yritt\u00e4\u00e4 kaikin keinoin v\u00e4ltell\u00e4? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":5668,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[197],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5653","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cailap"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nOlethan ylpe\u00e4sti omanlainen itsesi? 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