{"id":9646,"date":"2021-08-17T11:49:32","date_gmt":"2021-08-17T08:49:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cailap.com\/?p=9646"},"modified":"2021-08-18T13:06:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-18T10:06:05","slug":"itsevarma-lahto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cailap.com\/fi\/blogi\/itsevarma-lahto\/","title":{"rendered":"Itsevarmempi l\u00e4ht\u00f6"},"content":{"rendered":"

Syksy ja uusi alku. Hassua miten viel\u00e4 aikuisenakin kouluvuosi voi leimata mielikuvaamme ajanjaksosta. Lapsena 10 viikkoa on ikuisuus. Sen aikana jokainen ehti kasvaa johonkin suuntaan: ven\u00e4ht\u00e4\u00e4 kaksi vaatekokoa, omaksua tanssijaidentiteetin, oppia ajamaan mopoa tai innostua vaikka Metallicasta. Minimiss\u00e4\u00e4n tukassa loisti <\/span>uusi pinni, panta<\/span> tai hiusv\u00e4ri sek\u00e4 repussa tyhj\u00e4 vihko ja elinkaarensa ter\u00e4vimmill\u00e4\u00e4n oleva lyij\u00e4ri. Mit\u00e4 suurempi muutos,\u00a0sit\u00e4 enemm\u00e4n paluu j\u00e4nnitt\u00e4isi. Mit\u00e4 muut minusta ajattelisivat?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Tuossa uskottavuuden tunteessa on jotain perin inhimillist\u00e4, sill\u00e4 se seuraa mukana aikuisenakin. Silloin kun aloitat opinnot ja mietit, ovatko kaikki muut sinua fiksumpia tai lahjakkaampia. Silloin kun saat ty\u00f6paikan ja koet jotenkin huijanneesi kaikkia uskomaan, ett\u00e4 taidat totuutta enemm\u00e4n. Silloin kun puhut muiden edess\u00e4 ja pelk\u00e4\u00e4t, ettei ket\u00e4\u00e4n kiinnosta tai n\u00e4ytt\u00e4ydyt jotenkin tyhm\u00e4n\u00e4. J\u00e4nniss\u00e4 tilanteissa ep\u00e4varmuus saa helposti vallan ja kuvittelemme, ett\u00e4 kaikilla muilla on homma hallussa ja me olemme ainoita, jotka haparoivat keskener\u00e4isin\u00e4 ja opettelevat edelleen.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Uusissa tilanteissa luonnollisesti j\u00e4nnitt\u00e4\u00e4, olipa kyseess\u00e4 uusi ty\u00f6, opiskelupaikka tai muu kuvio. Silloin on hyv\u00e4 muistaa n\u00e4m\u00e4 kolme asiaa:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Jokainen on omalla tavallaan pihalla, s\u00e4\u00e4nn\u00f6llisesti. Meit\u00e4 kaikkia j\u00e4nnitt\u00e4\u00e4, jokainen joutuu aika ajoin improvisoimaan ja kaikki me mokailemme, sill\u00e4 el\u00e4m\u00e4 on yht\u00e4 oppimista ja kasvamista.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Sin\u00e4 saat olla juuri sellainen kuin olet, heikkouksineen p\u00e4ivineen. Sinulla on oikeus olla t\u00e4\u00e4ll\u00e4 ja vied\u00e4 tilaa. Ei tunturikaan pyytele lupaa, vaan seisoo ylv\u00e4\u00e4sti omanlaisenaan. Ole kuin tunturi.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. T\u00e4rkeint\u00e4 on, ett\u00e4 sin\u00e4 tied\u00e4t olevasi kylliksi. Sill\u00e4 vaikka ulkoinen hyv\u00e4ksynt\u00e4 on arvokasta ja mukavaa, se ei yksin ole koskaan riitt\u00e4v\u00e4\u00e4. Mik\u00e4\u00e4n m\u00e4\u00e4r\u00e4 kehuja ei piisaa, jos pit\u00e4\u00e4 itse\u00e4\u00e4n muita v\u00e4h\u00e4p\u00e4t\u00f6isemp\u00e4n\u00e4.<\/span><\/p>\n

Koulussa, t\u00f6iss\u00e4 ja harrastuksissa oleellisinta on, ett\u00e4 pysyy kiinnostuneena, yritt\u00e4\u00e4 parhaansa, uskaltaa kokeilla, antaa itselleen rauhan opetella ja osaa pyyt\u00e4\u00e4 apua. Aktiivisuus ja asenne. Paljastavin portfolio on nimitt\u00e4in se, mit\u00e4 ja miten teet joka p\u00e4iv\u00e4. Tietoa on kaikkien saatavilla, mutta kokemus karttuu kokemisesta.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Siksi paras tapa vakuuttaa, on suhtautua itselleen t\u00e4rkeimpiin asioihin vakavasti. Ja siihen et onneksi tarvitse kenenk\u00e4\u00e4n lupaa tai hyv\u00e4ksynt\u00e4\u00e4.<\/span><\/p>\n

Itsevarmaa uutta alkua yst\u00e4v\u00e4! <\/span><\/p>\n

\u2764 Hanna & Heidi<\/span><\/p>\n

PS Uusista aluista puheenollen, oletko jo tutustunut syksyn <\/span>uutuuksiin<\/span><\/a>?<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Syksy ja uusi alku. Hassua miten viel\u00e4 aikuisenakin kouluvuosi voi leimata mielikuvaamme ajanjaksosta. Lapsena 10 viikkoa on ikuisuus. Sen aikana jokainen ehti kasvaa johonkin suuntaan: ven\u00e4ht\u00e4\u00e4 kaksi vaatekokoa, omaksua tanssijaidentiteetin, oppia ajamaan mopoa tai innostua vaikka Metallicasta. Minimiss\u00e4\u00e4n tukassa loisti uusi pinni, panta tai hiusv\u00e4ri sek\u00e4 repussa tyhj\u00e4 vihko ja elinkaarensa ter\u00e4vimmill\u00e4\u00e4n oleva lyij\u00e4ri. Mit\u00e4 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":9662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[197,201],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9646","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cailap","category-vinkkeja"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nItsevarmempi l\u00e4ht\u00f6 - Cailap<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Uusi alku j\u00e4nnitt\u00e4\u00e4, mutta muista ett\u00e4 sin\u00e4 saat olla juuri sellainen kuin olet, heikkouksineen p\u00e4ivineen. 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